You are often defined by your actions or the choices you make in life.
But does that really make you who you are?
Who's to say who you really are? Whether you dress a particular way, or choose to do this and that, that does not make you the person that you are. It is a portion of you...it is not all of you.
People are always shocked when you step our of this little box that they have placed you in, why is it so strange for people to try new and different things? If anything it should be embraced.
Never place someone in the box you have created for them. People will always shock you. Let them keep redefining themselves everyday by their individual, daily choices.
Be who you want to be, do what you want to do. Do not let people define you.